We have entered into the last quarter of 2020 and even though this year has not looked like how any of us envisioned, I ask you what will you do with the last 83 days left? Have you already written the year off? Have you already thrown in the towel and can’t wait until 2021? I know friends this year is like no other, but I bet many of us have overcome struggles and maybe even bigger struggles than what 2020 has presented. We must remember we still have been gifted this time. What will we make of it? As I prepare for my kids to go back to in-person school on Monday with shields on their desks, masks, and hand sanitizer hooked on their bookbags I wish it could be different. I wish I didn’t have to explain to my daughter how even though she will be back in school, it will not be the same. However, I must teach her to be grateful for her teachers and all the extra work they have done to make remote learning work. Teach both of them that they can do hard things. Teach them that their attitude determines the direction of their thoughts. Teach them we can still make something good of this crazy year. One thing that always makes me feel better is giving to others. Giving to others fills my cup. Is that something you would consider in the last 83 days? Could you give your time to a loved one? Spend quality time with them. Or maybe you need some time for self-care. Could you designate time for yourself to read an inspiring book. Or maybe once a week just sit in your favorite spot and journal or listen to uplifting music. What is a goal that you have set that you could still accomplish or at least work towards? Friends don’t let the last 83 days just pass by. Don’t let someone who has been looking up to you see you give up. There is still time to check a goal off your list. There is still time to feel good about this year. I look back at the past 283 days and know that in 2020 I have spent the most quality time with my husband and children. We have worked out as a family, cooked and baked as a family, played so many games, and read a lot of books together. Yes, there were moments when I needed a break and needed to get away. However, overall it reminded me when I have them everything is good. So what memories can you make still in 2020? Today, I challenge you to reflect back on the past 283 days. What do you want to do differently in the last 83 days? Remember this last quarter is the setup for the start of 2021. What good habits can you create? Maybe even make a list today of your most vital priorities (MVPs) and then reflect on how you are truly honoring those. What can you change? 2020 can be better if we all just make the best of it. Believe that the last 83 days could be amazing if you decide you are going to work for that. We can do hard things.
